Are you spending on what you can use daily or on big purchases that you rarely use? Find out here, the smart way to spend to increase your happiness and wealth!
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I recently read a Psychology Today blog post titled “What you do every day matters more than what you do once in a while.” Written by Gretchen Rubin, author of “The Happiness Project,” the main point of the post is that people are happiest when they make decisions based on their daily life, not the life they lead every once in a while.
Buying for someone else’s life
It struck me that spending money on the things I do once in a while was a large part of why I wasn’t saving money, or at least spending on the things that really mattered. And that led to a lot of unhappiness.
As I mentioned earlier, I used to buy clothing for someone else’s lifestyle. I had clothes for snowboarding, cocktail parties and mountain biking. I had several winter coats and countless pairs of gloves — and I live in Texas. Who knows how much I’ve spent over the years, buying new apparel every time a new hobby interested me or picking up a little black dress without so much as one event on my calendar? And the purchases weren’t just wasting money; they were also chipping away at my happiness. I had a closet full of clothes and nothing to actually wear. I also had to look at the results of my spending habits every morning when I got dressed, which only made me feel worse.
House rich, lifestyle poor
Another example of maximum-use imperative is buying too much house so the owner can host the entire family over the holidays. This isn’t farfetched; I know more than one person who has done it. It’s a lovely sentiment to want your entire family under one roof, and it’s a gracious thing to offer to host them. But if you’re a family of three and you buy enough house to accommodate 15 or more people, that’s a huge expense you’ll pay all year to make use of for just a few days during the holiday season. The mortgage payments will be higher, not to mention taxes, interest, insurance and utilities, as well as the time and money spent cleaning and maintaining a larger house.
Buying a smaller house could give you more options, including:
- Moving somewhere more desirable (paying for location instead of square footage).
- Paying off the mortgage faster.
- Buying a smaller house and using the extra money to travel.
- Saving the money for long-term goals like retirement.
On a day-to-day basis, one of those options will probably make you much happier. Then, during those few days of the year when family is in town, you can find a way to make things work. Better to structure your life and your spending around the other 51 weeks of the year.
Invest in your real life
I just returned from a trip to Italy and Spain, and I was tempted more than once by a great sweater or scarf I saw in a shop window. One of my travel companions said, “You’re here, just get it so you won’t think about it later.” I thought about this advice for a second, then I remembered that I have more than enough sweaters and scarves and decided I’d rather spend the money on tickets to a museum or a round of churros and chocolate. Or maybe just put it toward the next trip.
As Rubin writes, “we’re happiest when our decisions most closely match our natures and our values,” and that’s definitely applicable to spending decisions. Instead of spending money on the things you use once in a while, ask yourself how often you’ll need something before you buy it. Then invest in your day-to-day life, not your fantasy life.
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— Wealth Building Daily